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Today's problem statement
how can u make someone to have faith,
to trust you fully,AGAIN?
what are the factors that will influence you
to make that decision?
maybe you can look and think out of
the box, what do i mean by this?
stop the "once bitten twice shy"
thinking.
it means
"If somebody is said to be once bitten twice shy,
it means that someone who has been hurt or
who has had something go wrong will be far
more careful the next time. "
why do i say that? because as we all
know that as the clock is ticking
when the time is passing
seconds by seconds, days by days
months by months, years by years
do you realise that we are all changing?
every now and then?
some will turn from bad to worst
some might not be as good but at
least improved isn't it?
why chances, second ones are always given to those
that are 'bad'? ( you know what i mean)
and not to those who are better?
the question that i want to
find out will be
why do ppl alway judge others
by it's appearance?
or why do ppl alway remember the
bad things you had done, and not
the good ones?
that's really something that you should
ask around and explore.
to gain someone's trust again
is a huge challenge to someone
that had been hurt before?
i bet so.
of coz it's difficult
but is it never again?
so is it that they are scare
that history will just repeat by itself?
what is the past represent the future?
what have we learn at the
'adam khoo workshop'?
the past is not the future. right?
once bitten twice shy, this
powerful sentence can be use in
our daily life, anything.
but is it that once we got the bad
experience, then you are scare?
or you just dont want to get into it again?
why do ppl think like that?
the more you run the more you
avoid, the more it will hunt you down,
who knows when you overcome it again,
it will never be the same agin?
happier?
when it comes to 'realised'
a person will only feel stupid and
dumb when he understand what it means
by 'realised'.
this word can only be used for the past.
bcoz everytime when this word appear,
it's too late.
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so after sooo much of explaination,
the main thing i want to know is that,
can i break throught the metal gates
of yours, and warm your heart once
again, 'promise' has great power in it,
that comes with great responsibility.
i will prove to be worthy enough for you
to trust me, again.
i will not repeat that again.
feel like wasting my time,
typing so much when you say a NO
and choose to shut your doors.
i know i can do better,
you will be happier.
then this post will not be necessary.
'Realised'
, C's
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