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i've been dating my bf for almost 3moths, and we go out all the time. i love this guy to death, but ,my problem is he never pay for me. he invites me to go to the movies or dinner or lunch. and he doesnt pay! the only time he paid was the night he asked me to the movies, and since then he hasnt done it. homecoming is this weekend, and i have no money for anything, what should i do?

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okay, if your bf sticks you with paying for everything( for both you and him ) on all your dates, then that's wrong and you should talk to him bout it. but it sounds like you expect him to pick up the tab for everything jus bcoz he is a GUY? AND that's not right, either!
back in the old days, men paid for stuff bcoz woman generallydidnt have jobs, they stayed at home cooking, cleaning, and raising kids. But that change the woman's movement, and now men and woman are supposed to be equal. so you two should spilt everything fiffty fiffty unlesss you want to stay at home and cook for him, jus like the old days!

spiltting stuff doesnt have to be a hassle, either. the best way to do is to take turns paying for things. for instance, he pays for yours movie ticket and you pay for the pizza and sodas afterward. that way you both feel good about yours date, and u can concentrate on having fun together, which is what really matters!



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although generally guys should pay, like that will show tat they are ' gentlemen '. yes of course guys are gentlemen but not rich people, this is not a bias post! is jus to let couples, esp the girls to change their mindset alittle bit. everytime i heard from ppl saying! TREAT THE GIRLS FAIRLY! WE CAN DO AS MUCH AS GUY CAN DO. but is girls treating a simple date fair? so who is unfair now. this could be a so called 'petty man' action to some of the girls. but instead some of the girls even said tat, HEY COMON we DONT NEED GUYS TO PAY! WE CAN PAY for OURSELVES! wowww. really admire her. dont u think that in a date both the guy and the girl fighting wif each other to see who pay the bills first, will be much more fun
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one side pay for everything and end up not enough money to go else where! wouldnt it be boring if a date jus ends bout 3hours time jus for a movie? if u got hands u got legs u are working, stand up and fight to pay first! understood?

as for guys, if u are left wif no money! SPEAKKKK up and say sorry can u pay first! there is dont need to be ashamed of. u dont say things that u cant do! and girls, speak up and say, can we serperate the bills fairly? for eg, i pay for the lunch, u pay for dinner, den i pay for movie, and next time we go out again u will pay for my meal, and i will pay for etc...... take turns.
this is all bout equal rights and fair!


although some girl agree
some still dont.


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1. i think that it's a problem if your guy never pays. he's not making u special.
2.Get real, you dont need a man to takcare of you!

you decide who u want to be. no1 or 2.

the end!~~